That Guy Ajay

The way the world is advancing, you can learn anything from the comfort of your home; you can meet people from every corner of the world just by swiping right on your mobile; you have endless opportunities to make money literally out of thin air; you can be anything, go anywhere, do almost everything; the choices are virtually limitless. We have all the freedom to live our lives in the way we please, yet we struggle to choose what we want. Freedom is supposed to make our lives easy, but are we really living easy lives? Life seems easier when we have someone to make decisions for us. Because we don't have the responsibility of making a choice, and we have someone to blame if things don't go right. Freedom is a difficult thing to handle. It comes with responsibility and accountability and more scope for regret. Every day we are encountered with so many options and choices to choose from that we constantly have to take decisions. The ideal way is to explore all the options and dec...

I've spent a lot of time trying to understand what makes a relationship truly successful. I observed people in happy relationships, read books, and listened to lectures on the subject, but I still couldn't find the answer. It’s baffling that, despite the importance of relationships to our existence, we haven’t figured out how to make them work. Marriage, one of the tools invented to make relationships last, works only by forcing you to be in the relationship even when it's not actually thriving. The idea of marriage is given false significance by linking it to religion, duty, morals, and societal standards.  I wasn't just seeking answers for marital or romantic relationships but for all the relationships between people. Like the relationship between parents and children, the relationship between friends, relatives, or any other human relationship. I started questioning myself: Why am I seeking a relationship with another person? We tend to seek what we lack, but what ex...